When your ex starts dating someone who looks like you

When your ex starts dating someone who looks like you

You were selected because he likes how you look. There are definitely other things he likes about you, like personality, intelligence, wit, earning potential… but he finds out about those AFTER he sees you. This is the first reason it makes perfect sense why you look like his ex. It would be much faster for him to get a different chick that looks the way she used to look than to put her on a diet or wait for her hair to grow back. Just get another bar.

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We wear the same style of clothing and have the same hairstyle and facial shape. It makes me feel like he was just dating me to fulfill some fantasy. When I saw who he was dating, I realized that the only thing I was to him was a real-life version of whatever cartoon character he was in love with as a kid. It kinda made me feel like an object, like all he really cared about when we were together was my appearance.

Seeing her only reminds me of when we were together. Honestly, I might as well be looking at our old photos when I scroll through his Instagram because this girl looks exactly like me. I get deja-vu every time I see one of his posts. People actually texted me asking if we got back together. Just to give you an idea on how similar we actually look, after he posted his new girlfriend on his account for the first time, I started getting all these messages asking if we got back together. I think it was that photo of her in side profile with her hair kinda hiding the side of her face that did it.

It makes me think that I could still have him. I definitely feel like the factory reject. If I started dating someone right out of the gate who looked exactly like him, I would feel really weird about it. Is he doing this on purpose? It seems a little premature to go public…. I bet that he messes up her name all the time. I can just see it now: Is it wrong that I kind of like that idea?

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What It's Like When Your Ex Starts Dating Someone Who Looks when you realize that your ex is dating a woman who looks exactly like you. Either A: their ex marches a certain appearance they are attracted to, and therefore so do these other people B: They're still in love with their ex.

So your ex is gone — and he left you with a broken heart. Nobody moves on and finds someone new that quickly. Of course, if he cheated on you with another woman and started dating her right after you broke up, it might be more serious than a rebound. Other than that situation, the easy rule of thumb is that the longer he waited, the less likely it is to be a rebound relationship.

Now, this part of my series on very specific things that people experience with their exes when trying to get back together that cause a lot of frustration and difficulty. But if you truly believe that your ex would be better off with you then I think that you at least owe them the opportunity to make that choice for themselves rather than to make that choice for them by just giving them no choice, right?

Last month, word came that Match. You might think that's creepy, but it's also stupid.

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No one gets laid in Florida. I was shocked as the breakup had been harrowing and messy as dyke breakups tend to be but there they were. Locking lips at a chic downtown lesbian hotel room party. I peered closer at the picture. My mouth hung in horror as I realized snarky little Lena was correct. So I sent sweet Violet a text.

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We wear the same style of clothing and have the same hairstyle and facial shape. It makes me feel like he was just dating me to fulfill some fantasy. When I saw who he was dating, I realized that the only thing I was to him was a real-life version of whatever cartoon character he was in love with as a kid. It kinda made me feel like an object, like all he really cared about when we were together was my appearance. Seeing her only reminds me of when we were together. Honestly, I might as well be looking at our old photos when I scroll through his Instagram because this girl looks exactly like me. I get deja-vu every time I see one of his posts. People actually texted me asking if we got back together. Just to give you an idea on how similar we actually look, after he posted his new girlfriend on his account for the first time, I started getting all these messages asking if we got back together. I think it was that photo of her in side profile with her hair kinda hiding the side of her face that did it.

Your ex broke up with you and left you heartbroken.

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